Seeing your student head off to college is exciting but also a bit scary. It doesn’t just mark a major milestone in a student’s life; it’s a transition for parents, too.
Talk about what you’d like to know and why, and give them a chance to respond. Get on the same page about what’s appropriate for you to ask about along the way.
DON’T TAKE IT PERSONALLY IF YOUR STUDENT CAN’T CHAT
If you want to talk to your student, discuss a check-in schedule with them. Listen to the demands on their time, and see what works for their schedule.
Whether it’s them coming home during a break or you heading to their city during a lull in school activities, like during family weekends, it can create opportunities for bonding.
If possible, time the deliveries to potentially stressful periods. You can also send one each season, ensuring they have a few comforts as the weather shifts.